Hey Sheila!
I’m 27 years old and I have a problem.
First of all, let me say that I’m an independent woman. I have a job and I can pay all my bills. Now, I have been in a relationship for almost two years with this man. I must admit that he is not the best looking man around but he has a good heart and he is very good to me. He is from a rich family but this is not why I’m with him. I love him for him.
The problem is that he has been asking me to move in with him so that we can start a family. He’s eager to have his family come meet my family. I can see myself being married to him but I don’t want to have his children in case they don’t resemble me and they come out looking like him. I can’t.
Will it be wrong to marry him but have children with another better-looking man instead?
Please help.
Dear Independent Woman,
First of all, I must say that paying your rent and buying your food is not an achievement. It is what is expected of you. It’s what millions of other adults in this country are doing. I am all for women flaunting everything they have as long as they can back it up but paying your rent isn’t quite it.
Now, to the issue at hand, I haven’t heard you mention anything about the poor babies you will have who will be caught in the chaos when your secret comes out. (It will come out, they always do) Neither have you mentioned the poor man whose money you’re chomping on and whose children you do not want to bear. What a selfish decision.
I’m sure you know right from wrong. If you decide to go with your decision, be ready for the possibility that eventually, you might lose it all – the beautiful babies and Mr. Money bags.
Word on the street is that if you put a matchstick up there while doing the deed, the babies will come out looking like you. I do not understand the Science but what do I know? Give it a shot, who knows? You just might get to keep and eat your cake.
Sincerely Sheila.
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I’m 27 years old and I have a problem.
First of all, let me say that I’m an independent woman. I have a job and I can pay all my bills. Now, I have been in a relationship for almost two years with this man. I must admit that he is not the best looking man around but he has a good heart and he is very good to me. He is from a rich family but this is not why I’m with him. I love him for him.
The problem is that he has been asking me to move in with him so that we can start a family. He’s eager to have his family come meet my family. I can see myself being married to him but I don’t want to have his children in case they don’t resemble me and they come out looking like him. I can’t.
Will it be wrong to marry him but have children with another better-looking man instead?
Please help.
Dear Independent Woman,
First of all, I must say that paying your rent and buying your food is not an achievement. It is what is expected of you. It’s what millions of other adults in this country are doing. I am all for women flaunting everything they have as long as they can back it up but paying your rent isn’t quite it.
Now, to the issue at hand, I haven’t heard you mention anything about the poor babies you will have who will be caught in the chaos when your secret comes out. (It will come out, they always do) Neither have you mentioned the poor man whose money you’re chomping on and whose children you do not want to bear. What a selfish decision.
I’m sure you know right from wrong. If you decide to go with your decision, be ready for the possibility that eventually, you might lose it all – the beautiful babies and Mr. Money bags.
Word on the street is that if you put a matchstick up there while doing the deed, the babies will come out looking like you. I do not understand the Science but what do I know? Give it a shot, who knows? You just might get to keep and eat your cake.
Sincerely Sheila.
Read: Sheila, I'm A Goat Wife, Should I Leave My Cheating Husband?